Comments on: Twisty, Turny Roads http://www.deguia.net/2009/05/03/twisty-turny-roads/ Musings of a dad, writer, creative consultant & social media ninja Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:39:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Yo sister http://www.deguia.net/2009/05/03/twisty-turny-roads/comment-page-1/#comment-1323 Yo sister Mon, 04 May 2009 20:58:32 +0000 http://www.deguia.net/?p=1202#comment-1323 Daniel, Keli, Bailey and Mason, I have searched, the past nine months, to make sense of losing Ethan. I have been criticized by family (names withheld) for daring to get pregnant again before doing what "others" feel is necessary to heal. But what I have learned through all of this, thus far? Is that Life throws you curve balls. It throws you off of the "plan" and the "path" that YOU had so cleverly outlined. But I can , even on my darkest day, sit here and know that my life will forever be better for having felt Ethan kick inside of me. To have felt him move and grow inside of me. No. This "awesome" feeling doesn't pay the bills. It doesn't make a marriage perfect dealing with the grief of losing this beautiful little boy. Or a marriage NOT suffer stress due to an unplanned baby.But it is life! I have watched you and Keli rise above EVERY single challenge and roadblock put in front of you thru the years. You have never failed to love each other. Yeah. Maybe you didn't always LIKE each other but the love? The love is what gets you through it all. And you and Keli have that! You always have! Sometimes....there is just love. And the rest? Will sort itself out! I am so happy to be having a new neice or nephew. And I have NO doubt that you and Keli will rise above as you always have! Kids don't need the newest gadgets...they need love. And that? You and Keli have always given!! All of our love ! Uncle Brian, Aunt Kristy and cousins...Ryan, Nathan, Brandon and Ethan :) <abbr><em>Yo sister’s last blog post..<a href="http://haveuseenmysanity.wordpress.com/2009/05/04/day-2/" rel="nofollow">Day 2</a></em></abbr> Daniel, Keli, Bailey and Mason,
I have searched, the past nine months, to make sense of losing Ethan. I have been criticized by family (names withheld) for daring to get pregnant again before doing what “others” feel is necessary to heal. But what I have learned through all of this, thus far? Is that Life throws you curve balls. It throws you off of the “plan” and the “path” that YOU had so cleverly outlined. But I can , even on my darkest day, sit here and know that my life will forever be better for having felt Ethan kick inside of me. To have felt him move and grow inside of me. No. This “awesome” feeling doesn’t pay the bills. It doesn’t make a marriage perfect dealing with the grief of losing this beautiful little boy. Or a marriage NOT suffer stress due to an unplanned baby.But it is life!
I have watched you and Keli rise above EVERY single challenge and roadblock put in front of you thru the years. You have never failed to love each other. Yeah. Maybe you didn’t always LIKE each other but the love? The love is what gets you through it all. And you and Keli have that! You always have!
Sometimes….there is just love. And the rest? Will sort itself out!
I am so happy to be having a new neice or nephew. And I have NO doubt that you and Keli will rise above as you always have! Kids don’t need the newest gadgets…they need love. And that? You and Keli have always given!!

All of our love !
Uncle Brian, Aunt Kristy and cousins…Ryan, Nathan, Brandon and Ethan :)

Yo sister’s last blog post..Day 2

]]> By: logtar http://www.deguia.net/2009/05/03/twisty-turny-roads/comment-page-1/#comment-1322 logtar Mon, 04 May 2009 16:00:26 +0000 http://www.deguia.net/?p=1202#comment-1322 I put my money on the 22nd! Congratulations to you both :) <abbr><em>logtar’s last blog post..<a href="http://blog.logtar.com/2009/05/04/let-my-photos-go/" rel="nofollow">Let my Photos Go!</a></em></abbr> I put my money on the 22nd!

Congratulations to you both :)

logtar’s last blog post..Let my Photos Go!

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